Frequently Asked Questions
About Possibility Therapy
What is Possibility Therapy?
Possibility
Therapy is a method and philosophy of psychotherapy,
usually brief, which stresses respect and collaboration as
well as effectiveness and results. Combining the best of
Carl Rogers' use of acknowledgment and validation, as well
as the directive approaches of Milton Erickson and
strategic therapies, Solution-Oriented Therapy considers
clients experts on their concerns, problems, goals and
responses to therapy. Therapists using this method work to
evoke (not merely to convince clients of) solutions,
spiritual and personal resources, strengths, competence,
and exceptions to the usual rule of the problem. Akin to
solution-focused (or solution-focussed) therapy,
co-developed by Steve de Shazer of the Brief Therapy Center
in Milwaukee, Wisconsin, USA, Possibility Therapy is
different in its emphasis on the importance of validation
of felt experience and points of view and a flexible rather
than formulaic method.
What does a Possibility Therapist do?
The
three principles guide the work of a Possibility Therapist:
1. Acknowledge and validate clients' reality and
experience; 2. Guide clients to shift how they view things
(perceptions of the problem) and/or do things (patterns
that support or create the problem); 3. Tap their
resources, expertise, and experiences for solutions and
consult them on their preferences on the process and
direction of therapy.
How
do you decide the focus of treatment?
Most
therapeutic approaches and theories have what is called a
"normative model"- prescribed ideas about what is normal
and healthy and what is abnormal and deviant. Treatment
then is based on what the theory says is wrong with you
(even if you have a different idea about it) and of course,
the therapist's subjective interpretation of that normative
model. So you may go to a family therapist for help in
dealing with your child's temper tantrums and he or she may
tell you that you the problem is really that you need to
work on your marriage. Possibility Therapy generally
eschews prescribed ideas about normalcy as they are most
often subjective (your idea about what works for you is
different than my idea about what works for me), dated (one
decade homosexuality is an illness, the next homophobia is
the problem instead), and ethnocentric (culturally biased).
In Possibility Therapy (and solution-focused,
solution-oriented, solution-based and other related
approaches) when a client says they want to work on
preventing their child's temper tantrums, we work on that.
If upon observation we have an idea that marital conflict
may be a contributing factor, we may offer that to a client
as a possibility. We view ourselves as cab drivers. Yes, we
have a vast knowledge of the city, traffic patterns and
various routes to reach any given destination, but the
client provides us with the destination and we negotiate
the route.
Are you the only Possibility Therapist?
Many therapists who call themselves brief,
solution-oriented, solution-focused, narrative or
collaborative use many similar ideas and methods. Others
have adopted the term Possibility Therapy for their work.
The labels are not as essential as the approach and
philosophy.
Does Possibility Therapy
work?
As far
as research is concerned, this is a tough question, because
measuring psychotherapy is a bit like nailing Jell-O to a
tree. Because psychotherapy variables are so subjective, no
one agrees on what constitutes a problem or a successful
outcome. We do know that Possibility Therapy is usually
brief, lasting 4 sessions on average. But meta-analyses
(studies that compile statistics from many smaller
individual studies to get a bigger and better picture)
indicate that all therapies are relatively brief (about 4-7
sessions on average).
Consumers report very high satisfaction with Possibility
Therapy, as they feel they are partners in directing the
treatment. We work on their concerns in a way that is
comfortable and productive to them and end when they are
satisfied. Follow-up surveys have indicated continued
satisfaction after the treatment has ended.
Are
you always collaborative in Possibility
Therapy?
No! If someone is destructive to themselves or someone
else, we intervene. This includes if unhelpful and hurtful
interchanges erupt in our office (we don't stop to ask how
the parties feel, we break it up and cool things
down).
What is your stance regarding self-help groups and
medications as adjuncts to your therapy?
If clients find self-help groups helpful, I'm all for them.
I think there are potential dangers in them, of course, and
I warn clients to be on the lookout for those dangers. A
danger with self-help groups is that you can fall under the
influence of group beliefs, which may be helpful and may be
limiting or create new problems you didn't even know you
had. Most of the groups provide good validation ("You mean
there are other people out there like me? I'm not weird or
different? You've had these kinds of feelings and
experiences too?") but sometimes also give the impression
that you can never be okay if you don't continue to attend
the group or live by their principles.
Medications are also a double-edged sword. I have clients
who have been greatly helped by medication, when what I was
doing was only moderately helpful for them. I have also
seen people get worse or be hurt by medication. I have also
seen some people who were told they would have to live
their lives on medications find other solutions and some
who despite their best efforts and desire could not.
Can
you do Possibility Therapy with mandated
clients?
Yes and
no. Possibility Therapists work with clients who are
pressured into treatment by maintaining a delicate balance
between acknowledging that the client doesn't want to be
there and trying to find a goal the client would be
motivated to work on. It's important to first listen to the
clients experience of being mandated into treatment and any
complaints they may have about by whom and how they were
mandated. While we hold clients accountable for their
actions, often they have suffered some injustices along the
way and it is important to include this. We then try to see
if there is a goal that they do want to pursue. For
example, a teenager who has been hospitalized or court
ordered to treatment maybe interested in getting out of the
hospital or out of legal services. We would talk to them
pragmatically about what they need to do to get out of the
hospital or out of juvenile service, including what the
challenges will be and what they will have to do to
demonstrate that the change is lasting ("The hospital staff
sees lots of kids who want to get out. What can you do to
show them you are ready to handle the stresses that put you
here?"). We then make a plan of action and act as coach. We
use this approach successfully with a wide variety of
mandated clients. My wife, Steffanie, has the motto: "Don't
be the most motivated person in the room." If in the end a
client doesn't want to be there, we respectfully explain
the consequences of that decision and what we will say when
Social Services or the court calls. If we can't find
something they are motivated to work on (which rarely
happens), ultimately we don't do therapy with them.
Is
Possibility Therapy for everyone or just certain problems
and people?
Possibility Therapy is done with a wide range of people and
problems. Because it focuses on clients' problems, it can
be used whether your problem is hearing voices, asking your
boss for a raise, sexual problems with your spouse or a
past trauma. As we have a wide variety of ways to help
people find solutions, we can work with a wide variety of
problems. Some problems are solved in one session and
others take years. Some people experience big changes;
others small successes. The only people we don't do
Solution-Oriented Therapy with are people who can't find a
reason to be in therapy.
What
is the difference between solution-focused and
solution-oriented therapy?
In the early 1980s, I began a correspondence with Steve de
Shazer, who had moved from California, where he had written
a number of papers on Erickson's work, to Milwaukee,
Wisconsin, where he and some colleagues had begun what came
to be called the Brief Family Therapy Center (BFTC). de
Shazer and I shared a common view that mainstream therapies
that saw clients as pathological and resistant were wrong
and could be damaging. People were naturally cooperative if
approached in the right way and treated as resourceful and
competent. de Shazer's work began to take shape and has
turned into "solution-focused therapy." My work took shape
and I called it "solution-oriented therapy." There is some
disagreement on who came up with the approach (it was
actually first proposed by a therapist named Don Norum from
Milwaukee in a talk/paper called, "The Family Has The
Solution," in 1978, long before deShazer and I articulated
our models). The most generous view is that there were a
lot of mutual influences. While I see much of value in the
BFTC emphasis on client strengths and solutions, there are
some areas of clear difference.
It became clear to me that because the Milwaukee approach
put such a value on focusing on solutions, it had left out
several elements that I found crucial in my therapeutic
work. First, there was no significant discussion of the
importance of validation of emotions (this has begun to
shift very recently). Because the emphasis is so much on
"solution talk," sometimes clients have the sense that the
therapist is minimizing or not attending to the problem and
feel "forced" or "rushed" to come to a solution. In
contrast, hearing, acknowledging and validating the
client's experience is a major first step in
Solution-Oriented Therapy, laying the foundation for
subsequent work. I learned this long ago from Carl Rogers'
work, and never forgot its importance.
Another
difficulty I see with the Milwaukee approach is its
tendency to be formulaic. One invariably asks certain
questions (like "The Miracle Question") and follows certain
sequences. There are flow charts providing procedures for
various client responses. While this may be a fine way to
learn a new approach, the ultimate effect is sometimes one
of rigidity and imposition. While the proponents of the
Milwaukee approach may protest that this is evidence of the
approach being done incorrectly, my experience is that a
formulaic approach has this built-in risk.
Another concern I have about the Milwaukee approach is that
it ignores political, historical and gender influences on
the problem (as well as the inner worlds of physiology and
biochemistry) as being irrelevant to the process of therapy
(since the focus is to develop solutions and
solution-focused conversations). Because of its minimalist
approach, in its strictest version, one gets the sense that
if a couple came in for therapy and the man was drunk or
the woman had a black eye, the solution-focused therapist
would be constrained from mentioning or inquiring about the
potential evidence of alcohol problems or domestic abuse
unless the couple mentioned it themselves or violence was
what they were referred for. In contrast, in
Solution-Oriented Therapy, while we take care not to bring
in extraneous material and inquiries, at times these areas
are crucial for both the therapist's understanding of the
issues and of the felt experience of the client and for the
development of solutions. Solution-Oriented Therapy
maintains that it is inappropriate for the therapist to
impose ideas about the problem or to push topics for
discussions unless there is a suspicion of dangerousness
(such as suicidality, homicidality, sexual abuse of
children, or seriously self-harming behaviors) of if
blatantly socially oppressive issues (such as racism,
sexism, ideals of gender or weight, sexual orientation
biases) are present. In these situations, it is then
incumbent on the therapist, regardless of whether the
clients think it is relevant or whether or not they brought
up the topic, to pursue these lines of inquiry and to do
his or her best to ensure physical safety or to explore the
social context of the problem.
In the end, I decided to call my approach Possibility
Therapy, to avoid confusion and to help differentiate the
approaches.
-BIll O'Hanlon, July 2007