Questions about Bill and his work
I wrote Bill an email
and haven't heard from him. Wassup with that?
Your email might have gotten lost in cyberspace, so you may
want to write again. But more likely, because Bill gets
hundreds of emails per week, he sometimes finds it hard to
keep up and it may have slipped through the cracks or still
be waiting on the flight deck to be answered. Again, please
write again.
I called Bill or wrote him a letter and haven't
heard back from him. Why not?
Bill travels a great deal and his time at home is precious.
He is also a little phone-phobic. Email is way better. It
can be responded to at any time and is more time-manageable
than phone calls, which can take from a few seconds to much
longer. Writing letters is a lost art and Bill hopes it
stays lost. It takes much less time to write an email than
write a letter, find the address, print out the letter,
find an envelope, put a stamp on it, put it in the mailbox.
Geez, it's exhausting just writing all that. Email is way
better.
I would like Bill to:
a. read my dissertation
b. co-write a book with me
c. let me be his gardener
d. hang out with me when I am in Santa Fe
e. write a blurb for my forthcoming book
f. tell me all about solution-oriented therapy for a class
paper I am writing
g. mentor me
h. etc., etc.
a.-d. Sorry to disappoint, but Bill is very busy and guards
his personal time fiercely. If he didn't he wouldn't have
much of a personal life. Bill has been blessed with a
fertile imagination and has outlines for many books on his
computer and is not looking for collaborations. He doesn't
have much time to read even very worthy dissertations.
e. Bill writes very few blurbs out of the hundreds of books
he is sent each year, but he does a few. Contact him by
sending an email to this address (PossiBill-249285@autocontactor.com)
to receive instructions for how to make it more likely he
will give you a blurb.
f. That is why Bill has written 28 books and 54 articles.
Please do your research and look at those before you write
to ask questions. You will probably find what you are
looking for in one or more of those books or articles or on
the Internet. It is even easier with the Internet and
inter-library loans. After you have done your legwork, then
you can write and ask some follow-up questions.
g. Mentoring is a mysterious process and does not usually
result from deliberate applications for the position of
protegé or mentor. If it happens, it happens, as it has
only several times in the past, but Bill does not take
applicants for this position.
h. Use your imagination for other requests/interests after
reading these FAQs.
Wow, Bill has done a lot of things, travels a lot
and has written a lot of books. He must never
sleep.
Bill usually sleeps quite well, thank you. He likes to
sleep a good 8 hours a night. He is just very energetic and
stimulated by taking on new projects. He works fast when he
works and is profoundly languid and lazy when he doesn't,
often reading four or five leisure books a week when he's
on a tear. He also plays guitar and piano, watches lots of
movies, exercises regularly (except when he doesn't) and
likes to go for walks and play fetch with his dog, The
Biscuit (a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel-cutest dog in the
world!). Bill participated in raising three step-children
and one biological child, who are all grown and on their
own and didn't sleep as much during that era, but he is
getting plenty of sleep now.
Can I see or call Bill O'Hanlon for
therapy?
Sorry, Bill is not available to do therapy. He's trying
very hard to have a life.
I was at a workshop Bill gave and I have a sense we
could be great friends.
It may be so, but Bill's is barely able to keep up with the
friends he has. Also, Bill wears his magic charisma power
pack at workshops and seminars; he is much more dull and
boring in everyday life, really. Truly, it's difficult to
be charming and charismatic 24 hours a day. Bill has the
same sense of enthusiasm and connection when he hears a
good presenter, but he knows enough from the other side
that it is probably an artifact of the magic of the moment.
Give it some time and this sense will very likely fade. No
offense intended.
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Bill prefers you not call him. He's doing what he can to
have a life outside his work.
I want to hire Bill and pay him outrageous amounts
of money to do a workshop, keynote address, training,
consultation or talk for my group, my company, my
association, my church group, my posse, my Ya-Ya Sisters
and me, my book club, my [fill in the blank].
Click the tab for the page "How to hire Bill" to find out
everything that needs knowing in this area. You might check
the schedule to
see if Bill is officially booked for your dates before
you get all hot and bothered.